3 Reasons Why Other People Stop Your Success
Do other people stop you from being successful?
In fact no-one can have a real impact on your success apart from you. It is your perspective on other people that creates procrastination, if you change your perspective you will change your behavior
Second Guessing
What is he saying about me? What does she think about my actions?
The biggest killer of motivation is you seconding guessing what other people think about you.
Successful people self-reflect, but rarely do they care what one person thinks about them. Instead they believe in themselves, they take risk and make mistakes, they learn from their failed actions, they embrace their own success and they even listen to other peoples constructive criticism.
But never do they guess is another human is possible having negative thoughts about them.
Embrace Your Uniqueness
Looking in the mirror, watching yourself on youtube and listening to a recorded audio can create a negative focus. You may become aware of your differences, the things that you do, that others don’t.
People will often fear this difference. Sometimes hide it away. Many are scared that others will make fun of the things that make you different from them.
Instead embrace your uniqueness, this is what makes you, you. There are billions of people in this world, but know one is like you, you are unique, as unique as your fingerprint. There is no-one else like you, and there never will be.
It is always people who embrace their uniqueness, that stand. From history, the people we admire, are the people who are different, unique, special. Be you, enjoy being you, embrace yourself and your uniqueness.
Do It For You, Not For Them
People will always put on you, take advantage, question what you are doing.
You will be told again and again, throughout your life, that you are doing the wrong thing. Sometimes you need to listen to other peoples advice. But in the main go with your gut feeling, if this is the time to take a risk, take a risk. If you know this is the time to sit tight, sit tight.
In life, in finances and in your career, you will be given contrasting points of view, contrasting advice. Don’t focus on what other people want you to do, instead take all the available data and make your own empowered choice.
This choice maybe wrong, but it is your choice. Each mistake increases your learning. Never reflect on pass failures, apart from reflecting with a learning perspective. Take confidence that you can make up your mind, and more often then not the choices will be the best choices for you.
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Chris Delaney is also a published author “The 73 Rules of Influencing the Interview – using Psychology, NLP and Hypnotic Persuasion Techniques”
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