Why Everyone Needs to be a Dreamer
So many self development books tell that in order to be successful you need a goal. With a goal set, you will have success. Rubbish!!!
I have met many people who have set SMART goals, created and followed a plan of action and haven’t become successful. Think about it how many new years resolutions have you set and to find several months later you haven’t had the desired success.
This is true especially for the big goals we set ourselves; to be a millionaire, to own a successful business, to sail around the world in a one man yacht. This is because as well as needing a goal and a plan, you often need luck. Yes luck is often the missing factor in the success recipe
Now, i’m not trying to put you off being a dreamer and setting goals, in fact the opposite is true, I encourage you to dream big and here’s 3 reasons why…..
Dreams Give You Purpose
When you dream you create purpose.
Emotional goals become your destiny and when you see yourself moving towards this goal, ticking off all the milestones on the way, increasing your knowledge, understanding and specialism you evolve, these dreams, goals become part of your persona, your identity.
Others from your sector, come to you for advice, ideas and encouragement. This reputation combined with your growth from working towards your goal creates massive fulfillment, even if your actual goal is’t achieved
The truth is it’s the journey, the growth, the satisfaction from working towards a dream that is more important then achieving the dream itself
Preparing for Luke
At the article start I said that luck is the key ingredient for achieving your dreams. So, why not sit back, relax and wait for luck to come knocking on your door?
Luke only presents itself when you are immersed in your dream. The thousands of hours you put into achieving your dream creates new perspective, new skills and new experiences. It is this dedication to your goal that creates the light bulb moment, that creates opportunity, that recognises and grabs luck
Dream of the End Game
Like people believe a goal will create success, people believe that a goal is motivational
Well, it is, for only for a short period of time. This is why when you initially set a goal you are all fired up, but within a few weeks the flames of desire die down.
The key to keep motivated when working towards your dream goal, isn’t the goal itself but how achieving and working towards this dream will positively effect your life. To keep motivated think about your learning and development, the new experiences you are having, the new people in your life, how when you achieve this dream it will effect you, your relationships, your work/life balance, your finances and everything in your life
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Great post very insightful