Create Responsibility, Create Success
Being responsible for your own actions creates your own success.
Often people will set goals, only to put the failure of the goal (or often starting the goal) down to external factors. Blaming others or other things is an easy get out “I wanted to do X, but I couldn’t because of X”
Successful people come across the same barriers as everyone else but instead of using the excuse as a deflection, they find away around the obstacle.
Responsible Steps and Actions
If you desire a change in your life it is you who needs to take the required steps and actions, it is you and only you who is responsible for the change.
No matter what the required change is; to have a successful business, to stop being a drug addict or to increase confidence you first need to create a plan of action. What is it you need to do to take action?
If your plan is full off actions others need to do to help you, you simple need to rip up this plan and start again. Others may help and others may say they will help, but it is you who needs to create the motivation for change.
Responsible Critic
Often our own internal critic is the reason for our procrastination.
When you hear the devil in your head telling you that you cant do X, that your not worthy, that others are better then you, it is easy to feel demotivated and to give up.
All innovative ideas and all successful people have an inner critic. Sometimes the critic is a positive perspective, it see’s things that the enthusiastic you doesn’t. Finding potential potholes can be a time and energy saver.
But often the critic is nothing more then bored bully, finding pointless things to pick holes in. Take responsibility for your inner critic tell it to be quite, ask it what its positive intent is, ask how can you learn, develop, evolve.
Responsible for Others
With large goals you often need to involve others.
Others may be lazy procrastinators. As they fall behind you fall behind. If they cant take responsibility you need to. Challenge them, be assertive and demand answers.
If still they dont take action, cut them out. This can be a hard choice of the other in this scenario is a business partner. But if you desire success, you need to create the best environment for success, and this includes getting involved with the best motivational, action taking people
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