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3 Ways To Want To Work Towards Your Goal

 

You set a goal

You want to make a change

But after hours of thinking about your goal, you take no action

 

Most of us set big goals; to be rich, to fall in love, to turn my life around!

 

The goal being so big, need to have several other milestone between the you now, and the you, you want to be. Its having all these “new” goals that creates the feeling of procrastination.

 

You reason, it is easier to do something else, something more fun, pleasurable and easier. This distraction takes your mind away from the pain of all these new goals, but this is only short term. Later you come back to your task and the cycle repeats itself.

 

 

 

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Get Ready To Take Action

 

When you set new goals, especially goals that you don’t really want to work towards (because these small goals have a different focus to large objective) you focus is this task is going to be difficult, boring or painful, its this negative thought process that creates procrastination

 

Instead of thinking just about the goal, you need to focus on the lifestyle you want. If you want to lose weight, you should focus on having a healthy lifestyle. If you’re sick of having no money, you need to imagine yourself living an affluent lifestyle.

 

 

The goal is the step towards a life style that will make you feel fulfilled. Don’t focus on the goal; to go to the gym 3 times a week or to work a 60hr week to increase your income, instead imagine the life you will have

 

It this positive image that creates positive motivation

 

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Get Ready To Take Action

 

Pain is a big motivator.

 

When you feel yourself losing momentum you must swap the focus of “giving up” or “putting it off until tomorrow” (tomorrow never comes) to the focus that first helped you set the goal. This is often something painful, something you want to avoid (which is why you set a new goal)

 

Remember what it was that made you desire change, imagine living with this “thing” for the rest of your life. As the pain builds up, think of one little thing you can do right now, just one thing, toward your new goal

 

 

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Get Ready To Take Action

 

Reward Yourself.

 

Every-time you take a step closure to your goal, reward yourself

 

Your reward doesn’t have to be a physical gift instead the reward can something small.  Maybe you have a chart of the steps that you took. With every new step taken, you add a “blue dot” or and symbol to your chart to show your progress.

 

Your reward can be self-congratulation, a pat on your back. It can be simple as giving yourself a tick, phrase or a smile. This little reward scheme actually has a big impact, you feel more satisfied, more fulfilled.

 

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