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Why Everyone Needs to be a Dreamer

Why Everyone Needs to be a Dreamer 

So many self development books tell that in order to be successful you need a goal. With a goal set, you will have success. Rubbish!!!

 

I have met many people who have set SMART goals, created and followed a plan of action and haven’t become successful. Think about it how many new years resolutions have you set and to find several months later you haven’t had the desired success.

 

This is true especially for the big goals we set ourselves; to be a millionaire, to own a successful business, to sail around the world in a one man yacht. This is because as well as needing a goal and a plan, you often need luck. Yes luck is often the missing factor in the success recipe

 

Now, i’m not trying to put you off being a dreamer and setting goals, in fact the opposite is true, I encourage you to dream big and here’s 3 reasons why…..

 

 

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Dreams Give You Purpose

 

 

When you dream you create purpose.

 

Emotional goals become your destiny and when you see yourself moving towards this goal, ticking off all the milestones on the way, increasing your knowledge, understanding and specialism you evolve, these dreams, goals become part of your persona, your identity.

 

Others from your sector, come to you for advice, ideas and encouragement. This reputation combined with your growth from working towards your goal creates massive fulfillment, even if your actual goal is’t achieved

 

The truth is it’s the journey, the growth, the satisfaction from working towards a dream that is more important then achieving the dream itself

 

 

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Preparing for Luke

 

 

 

At the article start I said that luck is the key ingredient for achieving your dreams. So, why not sit back, relax and wait for luck to come knocking on your door?

 

Luke only presents itself when you are immersed in your dream. The thousands of hours you put into achieving your dream creates new perspective, new skills and new experiences.  It is this dedication to your goal that creates the light bulb moment, that creates opportunity, that recognises and grabs luck

 

 

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Dream of the End Game

 

Like people believe a goal will create success, people believe that a goal is motivational

 

Well, it is, for only for a short period of time. This is why when you initially set a goal you are all fired up, but within a few weeks the flames of desire die down.

 

The key to keep motivated when working towards your dream goal, isn’t the goal itself but how achieving and working towards this dream will positively effect your life. To keep motivated think about your learning and development, the new experiences you are having, the new people in your life, how when you achieve this dream it will effect you, your relationships, your work/life balance, your finances and everything in your life

 

Chris Delaney NLP Life Coach, Hypnotherapist and Career Advisor is available for booking for One to One Private Sessions, Group Training Sessions and Public Speaking Events

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Chris Delaney is also a published author “The 73 Rules of Influencing the Interview – using Psychology, NLP and Hypnotic Persuasion Techniques”

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Chris Delaney NLP Life Coach, Hypnotherapist and Career Advisor is available for booking for One to One Private Sessions, Group Training Sessions and Public Speaking Events

Venues

DIDSBURY: 4 Birley Park, Didsbury, Manchester, M20 2TL

MANCHESTER: The Triangle, 37 Exchange Square, Manchester M4 3TR

E-MAIL: chrisdelaney7@gmail.com for more information

 

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Why Chasing The Money Never Works Out

 Why Chasing The Money Never Works Out

 

As a coach I meet people from all walks off life who want to make a change, who have their own unique goal, when I ask their ultimate long-term aim, many people want to be financially successful, as they believe that money = success, happiness and a cure all from any problem they may currently face.

 

 

 

Money is great. If you have it you can buy a bigger house, a nicer car and you can go on more holidays. Most people who are successful do increase their salary, become rich and a few have more money then they can spend.

 

Now, I’m not going to say that poor people are happier then rich people, because that simply isn’t true. People who live their life plan, this may or may not include financial stability, are the happiest as they are living the life they desire.

 

When setting goals it is easy to get distracted and focus on the money rather then the initial goal, that long term would produce a bigger salary, a higher income or make you rich beyond your wildest dreams.

 

To be success financially you need to stay focus, and follow your goals not the quick buck….and here’s why.

 

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Focus on Money or Focus on Your Goal?

 

I coach a lot of new coaches to set up a coaching business.

 

At the start many wannabe coaches  focus on wanting to make a difference with their clients lives. They dream of having a career where everyday they meet new people, solve their problems and help them achieve their goals

 

Often, within a short period of time, these same coaches who started out wanting to help others, change their focus to their income, after all coaching as a career needs to pay the bills. This change in focus can kill your coaching business

 

With a focus on helping others, you will have passion, a desire to learn and you will feel that you are adding value to other peoples lives. With time you learn new skills, tweak your techniques and eventually start getting better and better results for your clients

 

These results, this desire to help others pays off, as your reputation and business increases, the money pours in without you having to focus on it.

 

When you focus only on the money, you may start to feel bad. Not because you are charging your clients, you need to do this to create a successful business, but because your focus has moved away from the thing you value, helping people.

 

Your fear of not making enough money may make you do out of character tactics; asking a client to attend an additional un-required session,  you may take on clients you are not skilled to help, or hard sell additional products.

 

The chasing the money attitude will grate against your own values and goals – helping others

 

 

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Always Wanting More

 

A focus on money feeds your greed.

 

Once you fall into the trap of focusing on money, you starting chasing the cash, trying to beat last months financial performance. This money game can kill your motivation as you always want more, £X is never enough

 

Because you always want more you never feel fulfilled. Coaches who focus on helping people are motivated by the difference they make in peoples lives. These same people spread the word without you having to ask, because they believe in you as a supportive coach. With word of mouth, money naturally falls at your feet.

 

 

 

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Why Do You Want The Money Anyway?

 

When you enter a “caring” sector job, you are often motivated by the difference you can make in someones life.  This is your passion, your reason for being.

 

We all like to be seen by others as successful. You know at some point, someone will ask you “how is your coaching business going?” This desire to be seen as successful from others comes at a price.

 

We believe that money = success, but your financial status is meaningless. Potential clients don’t wonder how much money you have, they want to know if you can help them overcome their barriers and achieve their goals.

 

When you are asked about your coaching business you should be reply by stating how you are helping people change their lives, not how much you charge per hour

 

 

 

Chris Delaney NLP Life Coach, Hypnotherapist and Career Advisor is available for booking for One to One Private Sessions, Group Training Sessions and Public Speaking Events

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Chris Delaney is also a published author “The 73 Rules of Influencing the Interview – using Psychology, NLP and Hypnotic Persuasion Techniques”

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Other People Who Read This Article Also Read:

Chris Delaney Specialise in:

FREE Life Coaching Downloads

Sponsored Adverts

Train to Be a life Coach and Make Money as a part time or full time Coach

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101 Life Coaching Tools and Techniques

101 coaching techniques

Chris Delaney NLP Life Coach, Hypnotherapist and Career Advisor is available for booking for One to One Private Sessions, Group Training Sessions and Public Speaking Events

Venues

DIDSBURY: 4 Birley Park, Didsbury, Manchester, M20 2TL

MANCHESTER: The Triangle, 37 Exchange Square, Manchester M4 3TR

E-MAIL: chrisdelaney7@gmail.com for more information

 

  • Hypnosis and Life Coaching for smoking in Didsbury
  • Hypnosis and Life Coaching for weight loss in Didsbury
  • Hypnosis and Life Coaching for fears and phobias in Didsbury
  • Hypnosis and Life Coaching for self esteem in Didsbury
  • Hypnosis and Life Coaching for anxiety in Didsbury
  • Hypnosis and Life Coaching for alcoholism in Didsbury
  • Hypnosis and Life Coaching for confidence in Didsbury
  • Hypnosis and Life Coaching for goals in Didsbury

Hypnotherapy and Life Coaching in Didsbury is easily located for people living in and around Stockport, Manchester, Tameside, Chorlton and Didsbury, as we are just off the M60

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