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Making Mentoring Motivational

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Making Mentoring Motivational

 

Richard Branson once said that everyone should have a mentor.

 

A mentor can help you create success quicker then you would be able to alone. Successful people, even though they have already created success, will still hire a mentor and coach. This is because a mentor creates a new perspective, increases learning and boost motivation

 

This article will teach how you can make mentoring motivational for you

 

 

 

 

 

Making Mentoring Motivational #1

 

Whats stopping you getting to the next level?

 

A mentor will help you analyse your performance to-date, your goals (checking your desired outcome) and more importantly look at whats missing.

 

As an individual you have limited perspective about your performance and what you need to do to create success. A mentor will share their story, experiences and ideas. The mentor won’t direct, instead they will ask strength base questions. It is this reflective mentoring that creates insight.

 

 

You can also self-mentor by asking solution focus questions;

 

  1. what do I want to achieve? 
  2. on a scale of 1-10, what number represents how close I am to achieving my goal?
  3. what makes me this number of the scale?
  4. what number do I want to be at next month?
  5. what do I need to do to get to that number?
  6. what worked previously when I moved from a lower number, to the number on the scale that I am today? 

 

 

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Making Mentoring Motivational #2

 

 

Create action

 

A mentor motivates through commitment. It is easier to let yourself down, than it is to let other people down. This is why people who set personal goals feel at ease when they give them up.

 

Because you know your mentor will question you about your actions, you are more likely to complete any set task. As you complete more actions your motivation naturally increases, creating a motivational cycle.

 

You can also use this motivational law of commitment on yourself;

 

  1. write your actions down on cards with deadline dates
  2. give these cards out to friends and family
  3. ask them to contact you on the deadline date to ask if you have complete each action 

 

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Making Mentoring Motivational #3

 

 

Boost self-worth

 

We all work at a higher rate when we believe in our own skills, qualities and when we believe in ourselves. A mentor creates motivation by helping you realise what your natural strengths, qualities and temperament are

 

Hearing this from others boost self-worth. Once you truly believe in yourself you will take your ambitions to a new level, work an a more productive rate and take risk.

 

To increase your own self worth you can take the time to reflect on your own practice

 

  • write a list of your skills, qualities and strengths
  • write a second list stating your natural personality traits
  • write a final list of experiences that you have had that will support you with your new goal
  • Next, circle all the common and similar   skills, qualities, experiences, etc. Notice which stand out more than the others

 

 

Chris Delaney NLP Life Coach, Hypnotherapist and Career Advisor is available for booking for One to One Private Sessions, Group Training Sessions and Public Speaking Events

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Chris Delaney NLP Life Coach, Hypnotherapist and Career Advisor is available for booking for One to One Private Sessions, Group Training Sessions and Public Speaking Events

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3 Ways a Mastermind Group Will Help You Achieve Your Goals

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3 Ways a Mastermind Group Will Help You Achieve Your Goals

 

A master mind group is a collection of people who will support each other to be successful.

 

This isn’t simply a group of motivational individuals who only encourage each other. Rather the mastermind group, who will meet on a regular basis, will challenge each other, check the realism of the goal(s)  and they will help you see different perspectives.

 

 

Mastermind Commitment

 

It is easier to let yourself down then it is to let others down.

 

By committing to a goal in a mastermind group, you know that you will be asked at the next mastermind group what action you have took. The knowledge that you will be challenged (and that you will be compared by yourself , to others in the group) you are more likely to take action.

 

You will also come motivated by the group, as they share ideas, suggestions and through observational learning.

 

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Mind Mastermind

 

Not all mastermind groups are physical. You can create an imaginary mastermind group full of the people you respect and admire.

 

When you have a new goal or problem you can ask your mind mastermind group what they would do in your situation? By using an imagined mentor you can give yourself answers that you wouldn’t have thought of, a new perspective and new suggestions

 

 

 

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Give, Don’t Receive

 

People under estimate the power of giving

 

In a mastermind group apart of your role will be giving to others in this group. By teaching, advising and mentoring you will naturally feel fulfilled as the act of kindness is a powerful state.

 

Students learn best when they teach. The perspective of a tutor can give you intuitive insights to your own goals and problems. This combination of feeling good (because you are helping others) and creating your own insight will empower you, increasing the action you take

 

 

Chris Delaney NLP Life Coach, Hypnotherapist and Career Advisor is available for booking for One to One Private Sessions, Group Training Sessions and Public Speaking Events

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Chris Delaney is also a published author “The 73 Rules of Influencing the Interview – using Psychology, NLP and Hypnotic Persuasion Techniques”

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Chris Delaney Specialise in:

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Chris Delaney NLP Life Coach, Hypnotherapist and Career Advisor is available for booking for One to One Private Sessions, Group Training Sessions and Public Speaking Events

Venues

DIDSBURY: 4 Birley Park, Didsbury, Manchester, M20 2TL

MANCHESTER: The Triangle, 37 Exchange Square, Manchester M4 3TR

E-MAIL: chrisdelaney7@gmail.com for more information

 

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Hypnotherapy and Life Coaching in Didsbury is easily located for people living in and around Stockport, Manchester, Tameside, Chorlton and Didsbury, as we are just off the M60

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