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The 3 Steps To Be Unforgettable at a Party
Do you ever wonder how those charismatic individuals became charismatic?
Are you born with it or is it something you learn? What would you do to become one of the elite? One of those unforgettable individuals that everyone wants to be around.
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Step 1 To Be Unforgettable at a Party
Collect and dispense stories
You know, that at every party you are going to be asked 2 introductory questions “what do you do for a living?” and “how do you know the host?”
Bland people answer with simplistically, creating no impact “i’m an accountant” “we went to school together” boring, boring, boring
Instead have a couple of magical stories up your sleeve (they don’t even have to be true!) A story creates intrigue, an emotional reaction and allows the listener to imagine the described scene. By collating stories, you’ll be able to use this strategy for other questions and conversations
Here are the steps you need to follow for a charismatic story teller
- Create Intrigue – use an opening line to grab attention
“I help people get rich, do you want to know the secret?”
“How do I know Barry? The guy who risked his life to save mine”
2. Keep it snappy – give 3 key things in the story
“OK but this cant be shared. I guy came to see me with (1-state problem) I knew i could help him so i (2-give explanation) you never guess what happened (3-explain the outcome)”
“I’ve never met Barry before didn’t really know anything about him. He was a friend of a friend we was all at a party when (1- state situation) then out of the blue Barry (2-give detailed account) at the end we (3-explain outcome)”
3. Bring it back to them – ask questions about them
“what is it you do?”
“how do you know Barry?”
Step 2 To Be Unforgettable at a Party
Become the introducer
At most parties there are several groups of people who only know the other members in the group. This circle of confidence has a negative side effect it stops people interacting with other groups (and potential friends)
To be really unforgettable be the person at the party who makes real connections. When you meet someone knew find out what they are passionate about (getting people to talk about their passion also makes you become unforgettable as they feel that they have strong rapport with you through association) when you meet the next person, and the next keep asking about their likes, interest and passion.
The idea here is to look for a connection between two strangers and then be the one who introduces them to each other “you like carp fishing, do you know Dave he’s a professional fisherman”
Step 3 To Be Unforgettable at a Party
Approaching strangers at a party can be one of the most terrifying things you”ll ever do (unless you evolve your mind to increase your confidence levels) to be seen as a confident communicator follow these 3 steps
- Compliment the stranger (this can be anything from nice shoes to their confident posture – this step allows you to grab their attention)
- Introduce yourself (when you can give your name and something interesting about you “I’m Chris, im a friend of Barry’s we know each other from bull fighting”)
- Ask them a question about themselves (the more you get someone to talk about themselves the more they will like and remember you)
Chris Delaney NLP Life Coach, Hypnotherapist and Career Advisor is available for booking for One to One Private Sessions, Group Training Sessions and Public Speaking Events
Chris Delaney is also a published author “The 73 Rules of Influencing the Interview – using Psychology, NLP and Hypnotic Persuasion Techniques” and his latest book “Evolve the Mind – the 7 rules to mind evolution”
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